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Plan-Organize-Recreate: How to get the Right Approach?



Don’t you feel approach is the single most important thing in 

life!?

I mean, in the movie ‘Made In China’, Raghu gets successful 
(after say 1000 attempts) only when Tanmay Shah changes his approach towards business. In real life, Abraham Lincoln was considered as a failure until his late 40’s. He proved it wrong in his early 50’s by becoming the president of United States. Not just the President but one of the most celebrated President of United States. This was only because his approach towards life never changed irrespective of what people thought about him.
The way in which we approach things controls our 
successes and failures. Approach decides whether 
something is right or wrong. Approach decides whether the 
number you see is a 6 or a 9. Approach defines yours 
smartness level. Approach defines your intelligence level. 
The world runs around the word ‘Approach’. 

Now that we know, ‘Approach is Important in Life’, we have 
covered our first question ‘What do I know?’

If approach is so important, then what is the right approach towards life?
How do we acquire the right approach towards life?
Let’s proceed to our second question: ‘What can I do?’
One of the best solutions towards getting a better approach 
is a ‘Gratitude Journal’.
Have you heard about the gratitude journal? While many of 
you would have, many aren’t completely aware of it!
Now, Why gratitude journal?
Gratitude is consistently associated with more happiness. 
Gratitude helps you feel more positive emotions, appreciate 
good experiences, improve their physical and mental health, 
and build healthy relationships.

Many research conducted by different scientists have 
consistently proved, ‘Gratitude’ as the greatest and parent of 
all virtues.
I recommend writing a gratitude journal in the morning just after you wake up. The reason being, the time when you wake up, brain’s neural activity is at its peak. When you imbibe the emotion like gratitude when your brain is at its peak, you generally carry that positive emotion throughout the day. You take optimistic decisions implying positive results in your life. I personally fill my Gratitude Journal every day in the morning as soon as I wake up. In my diary, I write the date, I write a paragraph or so, not much, on people who moved my life, past amazing experiences that touched my life. Sometimes, I just write about how grateful I am to the Sun, the Water and the Trees. Generally, it’s anything I am thankful about and grateful towards to touch my life. Sometimes, when I write something with gratitude towards a person, I make an effort to send it to them. They totally love it. This really has improved my bonding with people and I have built some real strong connections after that.
Talking about the Third question: ‘What have I learnt?’

You have learnt how gratitude journaling can give you the right and positive approach towards life. This in change will give you better results that you want in your Life. 

Do you think how positive approach is the right approach towards life?
Recollect one of the amazing experience of your life where 
you tasted the success. Did it happen because you were 
negative throughout the process or because you kept your 
positive spirit high?
So, this was for today. We will meet again on next Monday, 

with other aspects of Journaling. Until then, do share this 

blog. Do let me know your reviews in the comment section, 

I’ll be very happy to read them. 
Have a Happy Reading! 



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